MANCHESTER — A racist “homecoming proposal” posted by a Trinity High School senior on social media has stirred outrage, especially among the school’s and city’s Black community, according to Ronelle Tshiela, co-founder of Black Lives Matter Manchester.
She said the Black community is outraged after the student posted a photo of himself with a girl, who is not a Trinity student, holding a sign that said: “If I was black I’d be picking cotton. But I’m white so I’m picking you.”
Tshiela took a screenshot of the posting from the student’s social media account before it was deleted and reposted it on the BLM Manchester Instagram page. The student is a member of the high school’s football team, she said.
‘It feels like you don’t have a voice’
“I was disappointed, but not surprised because I have friends that went to this school, and I’m also a graduate of a school in Manchester and we’ve seen things like this happen before, so it’s not the first time,” Tshiela said. “I was very disgusted but also very hurt for the Black students who go there because I know what it feels like to have things like this happen. It feels like you don’t have a voice.”
Tshiela said the sister of her roommate, who is Black and a graduate of Trinity, currently attends Trinity and told her of the posting. She said the school’s Black students are afraid to speak out publicly. However, she said her roommate’s sister told her, “All the Black kids are mad.”
She said BLM Manchester wants to express “our support for the Black community that has been affected by the posting, especially the students at Trinity. This is disgusting and appropriate action needs to be taken,” she said.
Manchester Ink Link reached out to the school for comment, but did not get a response. Thursday night, Trinity President Nathan Stanton apologized to all affected by the social media post.
The statement he issued said, in part:
“We received a report this afternoon that one of our students made an extremely inappropriate post on social media. Student disciplinary action is confidential, but I can assure you that swift, appropriate action has been taken as this type of behavior does not reflect the teachings of the Catholic Church or the Mission of Trinity High School.”
Stanton also said, “This behavior was unexpected and unbecoming of a Trinity student. While I am disappointed this happened, I am grateful this has been brought to our attention so we can continue to form students in faith, virtue, and character in partnership with parents. On behalf of our entire administration team, I would like to apologize to all who are affected by this social media post. If any student or parent needs to speak about this event and needs additional support, please reach out directly to Mr. Gadecki, Ms. Risdal, and/or myself.”
Tshiela noted that the statement does not mention racism.
She said people are saying Trinity acted immediately but, she said, it has to be understood that action was only taken because the posting became public.
A homecoming ‘proposal’ that has been circulating online
Tshiela said when she first saw the “homecoming proposal” she thought it was a hoax because when she googled the phrase, she saw that other students across the country have done the same thing. A Sarasota, Fla. student in 2018 used the same phrase in a prom proposal.
“What that says is this was a very intentional act because he found it and it raised questions in news articles and he still decided to use it,” she said.
On Friday the leadership of Manchester Mayor’s Multicultural Advisory Council’s Leadership Team, which includes Tshiela, as well as Arnold Mikolo and Sue Corby, issued the following joint statement:
“The Mayor’s Multicultural Advisory Council has been made aware of racist photos of high school students standing in front of a homecoming ‘proposal’ that has been circulating online.
Statements like this undermine the vision of the Multicultural Advisory Council, which is that Manchester is a city where full and equal participation exists across all aspects of life and diversity is valued as an integral part of our community. This deplorable action undermines our vision and our effort to make our city a more welcoming and vibrant community for all.
We call on the leadership of Trinity High School, the New Hampshire Archdiocese, and other community leaders to take swift actions to ensure Manchester students’ safety and well-being are protected. Further, we want to express our support for the Black students in our community affected by this. Finally, we will continue collaborating as a council to achieve our mission of becoming a safer, diverse, and more welcoming community.”
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